In my area, unplugging someone is a bit trickier because for four to six cold months a year, that fully charged car is still using the plug to keep the battery warm and/or preheat the cabin. If it's my FFE, preheating can save me from more than 20 miles range loss on a full battery, so it's not a small deal. Similarly you guys in CA and AZ might not like being unplugged at 2pm when it is 110 degrees out and you are counting on the plug to keep your batteries cooled. Pre-cooling the cabin doesn't save much range so that's fine.
Anyway the most important thing to do if you have a reason you want to remain plugged in after reaching full is to leave a note and your number. And if you don't mind being unplugged, go one step further and move your car after it reaches full charge.
I personally don't mind PHEVs taking up spots, as long as they are charging of course, and move when complete. The way I see it they need to charge more often to run on electricity so they "need" public chargers more than a car that can go 2-4 times as far on electricity. I would probably draw the line on Prius plugins but Toyota doesn't sell them in this region so it doesn't come up.
I actually get more upset by Teslas taking up public level 2s. Number one, they get such a small portion of total range in an hour to two, it just doesn't seem like they need it. Number two, they have the whole supercharger network to themselves. Number three, their battery mgmt system works off plug (I think). And yes, I have been blocked at public level 2s by Teslas as often as Leafs and more often than Volts or CMax or Fusions. I think it's just a "look what I can do!" thing, as well as a prime parking spot thing. I agree it's best when stations are positioned at far ends of lots, but I understand it's usually cheaper to put them close to business entrance/garage elevators/etc.