We have two EV's. One is the LEAF and the other is the Ford Focus Electric. When we got the cars, I bought a spare wheel for each of them on eBay along with a TPMS. The wheels are about $150 each on eBay if you look for them. The TPMS are about $20 each.
I bought the tires from Tire Rack. I selected the Yokohama Avid tires for the spare and figured when it came time to replace the OEM tires at 15,000-20,000 miles that I also would replace them with the Yokohama AVIDS since they should last over 40,000 miles. The tires are about $110 each.
The local tire store mounted and balanced the tires on the wheels for $20 per tire. Since I first did this in 2012, my wife has managed to get two non fixable flat tires on the LEAF. That spare came in handy and I had to order another tire just 3 months after we got the car.
The LEAF tires did get replaced at a bit less than 20,000 miles with the Yokohama Avids. I also had to order another spare tire to replace the recently non fixable LEAF tire. I keep the spare tires in my garage and both times the tire was flat at my house. I always figured that since these cars will never be more than 80 miles from home, I can always deliver a tire from my garage to where ever the car is disabled.
The only real surprise was when I attempted to change the flat tire on the LEAF and found out that it did not have a jack. It was 2AM and I called Nissan Roadside Service and they came out and changed it.
The Ford Focus did have one flat tire, but it was repairable. Ford Roadside Service came out and changed it. I took the tire with the hole in it to the tire store and they fixed it and re-mounted it on the car. The spare was put back in the garage.
Anyway, a bit of planning can save you a few bucks and a whole lot of time.